Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Women's Rights 6 pm to 6 am, To Do with Police Action


Please read and share with your loved one ....

IMPORTANT
Women's Rights 6 p.m. to 6 a.m.
I was talking with a lawyer friend of mine.
We were discussing the law and women's rights.

She told me about this incident
- a young girl was raped by a man posing as a plain clothes officer; he asked her to come to the police station when she and her male friend didn't have a driver's license to show. He sent the boy off to get his license and asked the girl to accompany him to the police station.

Took her instead to an isolated area where the horrendous crime was committed.

In fact, the law clearly states that between 6 pm and 6 am, a woman has the right to REFUSE to go to the Police Station, even if an arrest warrant has been issued against her...

It is a procedural issue that a woman can be arrested between 6 pm and 6 am, ONLY if she is arrested by a woman officer and taken to an ALL WOMEN police station.
And if she is arrested by a male officer, it has to be proven that a woman officer was on duty at the time of arrest.

It is good for us to know our rights. To what extent it comes of use remains to be seen in any situation. But as they say, knowledge is power. Just thought I'd share this with you. I did not know this and am sure lot of us will not know this- please be informed..... And pass on this info to whom all you know.....

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Hotel Key Cards Caution

Something to think about. This is pretty good info. Never even thought about key cards containing anything other than an access code for the room!



HOTEL KEY CARDS


Ever wonder what is on your magnetic key card?


Answer:
a. Customer's name

B. Customer's partial home address
c. Hotel room number

d. Check-in date and out dates
e. Customer's credit card number and expiration date!





When you turn them in to the front desk your personal information is there for any employee to access by simply scanning the card in the hotel scanner. An employee can take a hand full of cards home and using a scanning device, access the information onto a laptop computer and go shopping at your expense. Simply put, hotels do not erase the information on these cards until an employee reissues the card to the next hotel guest. At that time, the new guest's information is electronically 'overwritten' on the card and the previous guest's information is erased in the overwriting process.

 But until the card is rewritten for the next guest, it usually is kept in a drawer at the front desk with YOUR INFORMATION ON IT!



The bottom line is: Keep the cards, take them home with you, or destroy them. NEVER leave them behind in the room or room wastebasket, and NEVER turn them into the front desk when you check out of a room. They will not charge you for the card (it's illegal) and you'll be sure you are not leaving a lot of valuable personal information on it that could be easily lifted off with any simple scanning device card reader. 

For the same reason, if you arrive at the airport and discover you still have the card key in your pocket, do not toss it in an airport trash basket. Take it home and destroy it by cutting it up, especially through the electronic information strip! 

If you have a small magnet, pass it across the magnetic strip several times. Then try it in the door, it will not work. It erases everything on the card.


Information courtesy of: Police Service.


MORAL : CARRY A MAGNET/ BUY A MAGNET (i.e. A FRIDGE MAGNET) AND THEN SWIPE THE STRIP...MATTER SOLVED!!!!)

Monday, August 29, 2011

Priorities, priorities & priorities!

A Professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him.  When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and 
empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. 

He then
 asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

 So the Professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the 
jar.  He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas 
between the golf balls.  He then asked the students again if the jar was 
full. They agreed it was. 

The Professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.  Of 
course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
was full. The students responded with an unanimous "Yes."



"Now," said the Professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
 recognize that this jar represents your life.

 The golf balls are the important things - your family, your children, your 
health, your friends, your favorite passions - things that if everything 
else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

 The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house,
 your car. The sand is everything else - the small stuff."



"If you put the sand into the jar first", he continued, "there is no room
 for the pebbles or the golf balls.  The same goes for life. If you spend all
your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the
 things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are
 critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get
 medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner.  Play another 18.  There
 will always be time to clean the house, and fix the disposal.  Take care of
 the golf balls first, the things that really matter.  Set your priorities.
The rest is just sand."



Sunday, August 28, 2011

A Truth


'Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.' 

Forgetting & Forgiving

TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING
THROUGH THE DESERT
DURING SOME POINT OF THE
JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN
ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND
SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE
IN THE FACE

THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED
WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT
SAYING ANYTHING, HE
WROTE IN THE SAND

TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE

THEY KEPT ON WALKING,
UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS,
WHERE THEY DECIDED
TO TAKE A BATH

THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN
SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE
MIRE! AND STARTED DROWNING,
BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM.

AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM
THE NEAR DROWNING,
HE WROTE ON A STONE:

'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SAVED MY LIFE'

THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED
AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND
ASKED HIM, 'AFTER I HURT YOU,
YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW,
YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?'

THE FRIEND REPLIED
'WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US
WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN
IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF
FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY.
BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES
SOMETHING GOOD FOR US,
WE MUST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE
WHERE NO WIND
CAN EVER ERASE IT'


THEY SAY IT TAKES

A MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL PERSON,

AN HOUR TO APPRECIATE THEM,

A DAY TO LOVE THEM,

BUT THEN

AN ENTIRE LIFE TO FORGET THEM.

A Market For Monkeys: A Take On Current Market Affairs

To laugh it out or to cry. I don't know. Please read on.

If you have difficulty understanding the current world financial situation, the following should help...

Once upon a time in a village in India, a man announced to the villagers that he would buy monkeys for $10.

The villagers seeing there were many monkeys around, went out to the forest and started catching them. The man bought thousands at $10, but, as the supply started to diminish, the villagers stopped their efforts. The man further announced that he would now buy at $20. This renewed the efforts of the villagers and they started catching monkeys again.

Soon the supply diminished even further and people started going back to their farms. The offer rate increased to $25 and the supply of monkeys became so little that it was an effort to even see a monkey, let alone catch it!

The man now announced that he would buy monkeys at $50! However, since he had to go to the city on some business, his assistant would now act as buyer, on his behalf.

In the absence of the man, the assistant told the villagers: 'Look at all these monkeys in the big cage that the man has collected. I will sell them to you at $35 and when he returns from the city, you can sell them back to him for $50.'

The villagers squeezed together their savings and bought all the monkeys.

Then they never saw the man or his assistant again, only monkeys everywhere!

Welcome to WALL STREET.

A Duty of Life

This is an inspiring story about selflessness. Selflessness is a state that is not easy to attain. It is doing service or duty with no thought or anticipation of personal compensation, reward and gain in any form. It is rare that such opportunities of service arise in life. Though this is but a story of fiction, it does illustrate the virtue of selflessness well.

A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside. 
'Your son is here,' she said to the old man.
 She had to repeat the words several times before the patient's eyes opened. 

Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young Uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand. The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man's limp ones, squeezing a message of love and encouragement.

 The nurse brought a chair so that the Marine could sit beside the bed. 


All through the night the young Marine sat there in the poorly lit ward, holding the old man's hand and offering him words of love and strength.  Occasionally, the nurse suggested that the Marine move away and rest awhile. He refused. Whenever the nurse came into the ward, the Marine was oblivious of her and of the night noises of the hospital - the clanking of the oxygen tank, the laughter of the night staff members exchanging greetings, the cries and moans of the other patients.

 Now and then she heard him say a few gentle words. The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night.




Towards dawn, the old man died. The Marine released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse. While she did what she had to do, he waited.

 Finally, she returned. She started to offer words of sympathy, but the Marine interrupted her.

'Who was that man?' he asked. The nurse was startled, 'He was your father,' she answered.   
'No, he wasn't,' the Marine replied. 'I never saw him before in my life..'
' Then why didn't you say something when I took you to him?'

' I knew right away there had been a mistake, but I also knew he needed his son, and his 
son just wasn't here. When I realized that he was too sick to tell whether or not I was his son, 
knowing how much he needed me, I stayed.'